Intimate and sexual feelings in psychotherapy: educational topic or still taboo?

ABSTRACT

BACKGROUND: Intimate and sexual feelings are common within psychotherapy, with negative outcomes when not managed adequately. AIMS: This study aims to investigate the understudied topic of these intimate and sexual feelings in basic education and psychotherapy training programs. METHOD: In this convergent mixed method study, both a survey (N = 786) and 8 focus groups (N = 36) were conducted among psychotherapists in Flanders, Belgium (November 2016 - June 2018), using inferential and thematic analyses respectively. RESULTS: The majority indicates that dealing with intimate and sexual feelings towards clients was hardly part of either their basic education or psychotherapy training. Talking about such feelings with peers or supervisors remained difficult because of concerns about being judged. Therapists indicating this topic was addressed in some way in their training indicated more often that they did not perceive it as a taboo topic. Therapists advocated a more open discussion and reflection on this topic. Education and training, as well as support from renowned key figures in their field, were regarded as important incentives to initiate change. CONCLUSION: Psychotherapy training should focus on how to deal with intimate and sexual feelings, referring to introspection and exploration of these feelings in a more integrated way during training.